It is very important for a man to strike balance between the two important ladies in his life. This is because a man’s life will not be complete without a Mother’s care and affection or a Wife’s love and support.
The relation between the Saas-Bahu will always be a power struggle when it comes to the man. Each of them tries to win the upper hand in his life. A man can consider himself the luckiest if both of them realize that, each one is equally important in his life and their role is irreplaceable, hence there is no need to prove their place in his life.
A mother who nurtured her son and took care of every step in his life can never withstand if her son neglects her. Valuing her words and suggestions gives the man a clear in-sight. As well, a man cannot neglect his wife who left her house for him and supports him in everything. Listening to her opinion is really necessary as she is the one with whom you will build your future.
Now the man has to take the call. He has to listen to both but make his own decisions. Have some convincing answers for both of them. That’s the way to value a relation. When he has to respond to the situations, he should not go with emotions, but use logic.
The Mother might suggest something out of her experience and wife can suggest something according to the present-day situations. It's better to listen to both of them and decide for himself. It is also important to convince them by explaining the stand taken for good reasons.
It is important for a man value both of them equally, and let both of them know that you value them both, to strike a balance and live a peaceful life.